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我是双性恋吗？

If you're asking yourself "Am I Bisexual?" then here's a handy checklist:

如果你在为“我是双性恋吗？”这个问题纠结，以下是能够帮助到你的一个便捷的清单：

Thinking about the people you've been attracted to, so far in your life, were they all of the same gender?

想想迄今为止在你生命中为你所吸引的人，他们都是同一性别吗？

If you answered "No", to any or all of the questions in our list above then we feel it's okay for you to call yourself bisexual. We don't care how attracted you are to the genders around you - you're bisexual as soon as you stop being exclusively attracted to only one sex.

如果你的答案是“不是”，那么以上我们清单中所列出来的的任何一个问题都能让你自称为双性恋。我们不关心你痴迷身边人的程度，但是一旦你停止被一种性别的人所吸引这种行为，那么你就是双性恋。

That's it. It really is as easy as that.

就是这样子，就是这么简单。

How you chose to self-identify is up to you - you can call yourself bi-curious, or pansexual, or biromantic, or omnisexual if you feel more comfortable with those terms (see our article "Is Bisexuality Mandatory?" for more on this).Some people identify as straight and have same-sex attractions. Some identify as gay and have different-sex attractions. How you label yourself is a matter of personal choice, but no matter what you add into the definition of gay, straight, or how you define bicurious or pansexual, the definition of bisexual as a sexuality remains very simple. It doesn't matter if you'd describe yourself as "attracted to men and women" or if you see gender as more fluid - we don't say "more than two" or "at least two".

你怎样选择自我认同感是你的自由——只要是你觉得合适，你可以自称为泛性主义者等（见文章“双性恋是强制的吗？”获取更多内容）。某些人被认为是直的但同时有同性倾向，某些人被标签为男同可能同时也为异性所吸引。你怎样标注你自己是你的自由，但是不管你怎样定义同性恋，直男，或者你怎样定义泛性主义等词语，作为性向，双性恋的定义依然很简单。这与你怎样描述“为男人和女人着迷”没有关系，与你认为性别具有不固定性也没有关系，我们不会说“多于两个”或者“至少两个”。

Many people have attitudes about bisexuals, based around myths and assumptions, and these have been tagged on to the definition of bisexual over the years.

很多人对于双性恋的态度都是基于迷或者假想的前提，而这些已经作为标签附在双性恋的定义上很多年了。

It's time to strip those off. The greatest tool in awareness is language, and bisexual has a very clear meaning.

是时候将这些都揭除掉了。认识最伟大的工具就是语言，而双性恋应该有一个很清晰的定义界限。

Don't worry about not being a 'proper' or 'true' bisexual - it's okay to have a preference or to only be attracted to one gender at a time for parts of your life. The dictionary definition does not say "currently", or "equally", or "simultaneously" or "only", and neither does ours!

不要担心是一个“真正”或者说“确切”的双性恋——有倾向是一件很好的事情，或许在你人生中的某个阶段你仅仅只为一种性别的人所吸引。词典里的定义不会用“一般地”或者“同样地”、“同样地”、“仅仅”等词语。我们应该也一样。

This is how we define it: A bisexual is someone who is attracted to more than one gender. You might care about the gender of your partner a lot, a little, or not at all - but their gender doesn't prevent you from being attracted to them.

以下即是我们怎样定义它的：双性恋是指某人被多于一种性别的人所吸引。你可能对于你同伴的性别很关心、或者一点点关心、甚至于很冷淡一点都不关心——但是他们的性别不能阻止你为他们所吸引。

That's all it takes, seriously. Are you bisexual?

以上就是全部，严肃的说。你是双性恋吗？