诡术妖姬吧:Torture your people will be thankful you do -------

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                                     Torture your people will be thankful you do ---


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       Everything in life, or give us a raise each energy, the evolution of their own to make itself more and more distant to development opportunities. We each deal with a case, it will avoid making the same mistake, this is the reward of life to us.

      We will never be hurt others unless we hurt ourselves. We will never be sold, is undervalued or not loved, unless we first do so themselves.

Success is often born in the great suffering, they often torture as an experience, an inspiration, a lesson.

      When we criticized, injury, bullying, betrayal, deceit, punishment, torture and other ironic, do not anger, complain, do not retaliate. Instead, we would like to thank those who tortured us, because they increase our wisdom, our fighting spirit inspired to strengthen our legs and make us stronger.

       If you have a winner, as long as careful retrospect, you will find that you really make progress, and successful, not only is your own ability, not merely the encouragement of friends and relatives, more often, is your stimulate your potential opponents to promote your progress. Torture is the ladder of success is the best teacher in life. Just see the positive side of torture, a person will succeed in torment. From the heart with a smile and say hello to others, you will get the same return.

       Thank those who tortured us, this is not the spirit of Ah Q-type victory, but a growth; This is not a retreat, but a mature; this is not a cruel, on the contrary, this is the best success the catalyst! The reason is simple, tortured our people tend to temper our will, so that when we want to give up, we will carry on holding the belief that when we are faced with many setbacks, we will have more unyielding spirit of the ... ... So, if our good people in the "help me to succeed," then tortured our people in the "force me to succeed." Do not be too demanding for real life, Chang Huai gratitude.

A person often the first to be tortured, in the torment of power savings, and then will create a brilliant life, this story confirms this.

      Iacocca was the general manager of Ford Motor Company and later became general manager of Chrysler. His motto is: "not afraid to face torture, torture is often struggling to move you."

      In 1946, with each person to society just like the young Iacocca at Ford Motor Company is just an ordinary employee, by virtue of his ability he later became general manager of Ford. However, a few years later, he was the big boss Henry • Ford's jealousy was fired. When the 8-year general manager, at Ford has been 32 years, cause smooth Iacocca, suddenly lost their jobs. Yesterday, he was a hero, many people pay homage to him, but today seem to have become infectious diseases, and everyone is far away from him, and former colleagues, has always been good friends have also abandoned him. His wife was so angry heart attack, his daughter complained that he is incompetent. This is the biggest fight of his life. The combat is just like Iacocca fall into the abyss from Mount Everest, almost kill him. He was angry, anxious, depressed, or even thought of suicide. But he eventually did not yield to fate, on the contrary, he determined to "live out the satisfactory end, and give those who look at my ability and value." Iacocca says so, the last and to do so. He bravely accepted a new challenge: Apply to the brink of bankruptcy as the general manager of Chrysler.

      Iacocca took office after a drastic reorganization of enterprises, reform, and to the superior wisdom from the government has made huge loans to businesses that will revitalize the dying. August 15, 1983, Iacocca put up more than 800 million U.S. dollars face value of checks submitted to the bank on behalf of hands. So far, Chrysler paid off all debts. And it is precisely this day 5 years ago, Henry • Ford fired him.

      Iacocca's success are many, if, if Henry Ford did not fire him • If his colleagues and friends do not abandon him, if his wife and daughter do not blame him ... ... if Iacocca had not dismissed in the event of relentless courage to stand up again but blindly immersed in grief and despair, brought to its knees in front of a huge blow, and perhaps will not appear on the glorious history of Chrysler Corporation. Obviously, a tortured man behind the success of the future, torture is needed in life, it is as valuable and successful.

Forget that you are not happy, forgive people who make you unhappy.

       Therefore, to thank those who tortured you. You know, that person who hurt you makes you stronger, is the cheat you, so you learn to identify, who is a bully you so you understand the protest, criticizing people who gave you your progress, your irony The people you have power ... ...

     Thank you torture the person should be a state of mind can be said that one sign of maturity. If one day you can have tortured his own people say "thank you", it is a transcendence, a free and easy, but also a sublimation! At the moment, I suddenly thought of the Kangxi Emperor in his last birthday on the respect of a three-cup wine: a King day, the second King, the King had three people with his enemies.

       A man who is afraid of pain, fear of torture, fear of unexpected things, that his life is on the left "to escape" the word, not what big business success. In fact, each time suffering and injury, will temper us and make us grow and mature.

Kept in the dark in happiness, blessing, able to endure the bad fortune, and do not forget to forgive.

      Thank people who tortured you what the key is not being tortured, but what, after being tortured. Torture is not difficult to accept, but then how to make good use of torture acceptable, that is the real difficulty. After all the tears and complaining does not help! Do not blame the person who tortured you, wipe your tears, do everything we can to face the present situation it! Only a strong faith, to inspire passion for life and adhere to the dream; only self-confidence, so that we rely on their own strength, building from strong faith. Then do not give up the hearts of hard faith!