青少年犯罪案例视频:有这15个小动作，说明他爱上你了！（组图）

小学时，当你不知道那个男孩时候也喜欢你时，你可能会传张学习“你喜欢我吗？喜欢或不喜欢”的纸条给他，但这在成人世界可行不通，和一个男人约会可不是喜欢不喜欢这么简单的事情，他的肢体语言，癖好都能说个事。看看下面这些，是否能从中学到些什么！真不行，就传张纸条给他把！

1/15

“Calling when I said I would. By ‘calling when I said I would,’ I mean if I said I’d call her at 8, I call her at 8, not 8:15.”

—Jack, 20

“我说会打电话给她，就会打给她，若是说在8点就会是8点的时候打给她，而不是8：15。“

——Jack,20

2/15

“I look for something we have in common that is pretty off-the-wall, then suggest we get together to do whatever that is. One time, a girl and I shared a pretty in-depth conversation about a random cartoon we watched as kids and we ended up finding an old copy of it on VHS and spending an afternoon…’watching’ it.”

—Jon, 29

"找到各自最异乎寻常的嗜好，然后两个人聚在一起好好讨论下究竟是怎么回事。我曾经就和另一半就小时候看过的动画片来了个彻夜长谈，且再VHS里找到一张碟片，为此消磨了一整个下午。“1

——Jon,29

3/15

“I end text messages in questions—usually something about her to keep the textversation going. And in general the texts are just way longer. But that’s probably not very smooth of me.”

—Gerhardt, 22

"我总会以问题结束短信交流，更多都是关于她的，这样就能保证这个短信交流能继续。通常这条短信会延伸出更多的问题，这或许对于我并不是很好。”

——Gerhardt,22

4/15

“I just go up and approach her and say hello. Simply put, it starts with a smile.”

—James-Edward, 37

"我会走上前去，靠近她，并对她说你好。或许很简单，但从笑容开始。“

5/15

“I definitely will get the door, which is something I usually won’t do for most people.”

—Jake, 20

“我会为之开门，而这也是我通常不会为别人做的事。“

——Jake,20

6/15

“I text a potential girlfriend ‘Thinking of you,’ often…I don’t hold back.”

—Scott, 29

“我会发我想你了给可能会成为我女朋友的人，通常我对自己的感情是不会有隐瞒的。”

7/15

“I guess I smile a lot and bug her, but in a playful way. I try not to blush, but if I wind up blushing, I can’t help it.”

—David, 23

“我想我会一直傻笑，捉弄她，以一种玩乐的方式，但我会很害羞，我控制不住。”

——David，23

8/15

“I mention I go to the gym.”

—Jonathan, 29

“我会特意提到我经常上健身馆。”

——Jonathan,29

9/15

“I come up with really dumb reasons only the two of us have to go somewhere.”

—Colin, 25

"我会想出最愚蠢的方法，只为了能两个人独处。”

——Colin,25

10/15

“This one might seem a bit counterintuitive, but if I actually like a girl, then I usually won’t try to make any moves too quickly. If I’m just looking for a hookup, then I won’t really hesitate to try to get to the point. I try to take it a lot slower if I think more highly of the girl. I know I can’t speak for all guys, but if a dude acts hypersexual from the get-go, that’s a pretty safe sign he doesn’t ‘like’ you.”

—Alex, 20

“或许这看起来有点违反常理，但我越是喜欢一个女孩，越不会轻举妄动，我会等一个时机，到时就会直奔主题，越是觉得难上手的，速度会更慢。我并不能代表大多数的男士，相反的，若是一个花花公子一开始就与你保持距离，只能说明他并不喜欢你。”

——Alex.20

11/15

“I find excuses to be with her and touch her—like her arm. Or ‘So is that a new bra?’ I’m kidding. Not that kind of touching. That’s creepy.”

—Robin, 26

“我会找理由和她在一起或是触碰她，像是她的手臂。或是说'这是新买的内衣吗?'，当然我是开完笑的，也不会因此去碰人家，会显得很怪异。”

12/15

“I make a conscious effort to mirror the signs of attraction I pick up from her. She leans, I lean. She teases, I tease.”

—Robb, 19

“我会模仿她的行为，像是她歪着身子，我也会歪着身子；她戏弄我，我也会反过来戏弄她。”

——Robb,19

13/15

“If I put up more than 600-something points on a girl in Words With Friends, then she knows she’s really got my attention.”

—Zach, 20

“如果我经常和朋友提到她，她就知道我是爱上她了。”

——Zach,20

14/15

“One thing I sometimes do is text the girl unnecessarily. Like if we just parted ways for the night, I’ll send her something innocuous, but it’s something that lets her know I’m thinking about her.”

—Alex, 20

"我会有事没事的给那个女孩发短信，像是我们已经约会很多次了一样。我会发一些无关痛痒的但是一些能令她知道我是在关心她的短信。“

——Alex,20

15/15

“I move across a room of people just to be near her to start a conversation. Or I offer her my seat because I notice she’s wearing heels and uncomfortably shifting her weight to adjust.”

—Sam, 24

"我会穿过一屋子的人群只为了能接近她，并与之谈话；或是让给她我的座位，因为她穿着高跟鞋，站着会很不方便。”

——San,24