雪风号时雨号野分号:不能只和你朋友聊天的原因

试问你自己你每天会和多少人交流.1个,2个,10个或者更多?我们都非常习惯于传统的教育模式,以至于我们有时会忘记可以从课外学到的知识,我同意教科书能教我们生活中的必须掌握的很重要的基础理论但我仍然认为我们可通过和不同人的交流中拓展我们的学识.

I have realized that I have become a very open minded person talking to as many people as I can. Some people have the habit of talking to people who share the exact same interest as they do. There is nothing wrong with that. We all love to spend time with people with our same interests and opinions, but sometimes people hesitate to get to know someone that is totally different maybe because they are afraid or don’t want to bother. Now let me ask you this; what if that person that you miss the opportunity to talk to can teach you something that is very valuable in life or maybe inspires you in some way. You might even discover something new about yourself.

我意识到尽可能和多的人交流会使我变得非常开朗.有些人习惯于和拥有相同兴趣爱好的人谈话.这本身没错.我们都愿意和跟我们有共同兴趣和观点的人相处,但是有时人们可能会由于害怕或者不想烦心而对了解与他们完全不同的人持很犹豫的态度.现在我问你.如果你将错失一个可以教你一些生活中十分有价值的东西或者用某些方法鼓舞你的人交流的机会将会怎样.你可以从中发现崭新的你自己.

I was very curious to learn about investments, stocks, and general advice on how to manage my money well, so I asked my supervisor at the company I interned at. He is a college graduate who has a lot of experience in finance. I asked him about risks on investments and more about the economy and he shared all he could with me based on his experience. By the time I had left work I had a better understanding of budgeting in college so I can save for the future. If I wasn’t curious or didn’t care I would have never received that piece of knowledge.

我十分渴望学习投资,储蓄和如何有效管理自己钱的非专业指点.所以我询问了我实习单位的主管.他是一个有很多财务经验的本科生. 我询问了他关于投资的风险，但更多的是关于经济方面的问题，他根据自己过往的经历尽可能的讲诉给我。当我离开了工作后对大学中所学的关于预算方面的问题有了更好的理解, 我可以未雨绸缪。如果我不是如此好学或者我根本不关心,那我可能永远也不会得到这方面的知识.

If I just sat their on a couch or table reading the business newspaper or a book yes I would be getting useful information but I would have a hard time knowing how to apply it to myself. When you are interacting with someone on a personal level, there is more emotional energy involved and you feel more motivated when you are given some piece of advice.

如果我只是坐在沙发上或桌子旁阅读商务时报或者商务书籍,当然我也可以得到有用的信息但要如何运用自如还是相当艰难的.当你在个人层面上被他人相互影响, 当你得到一些建议就会更多的精神力量渗入,你会感到更积极.

There are musicians, CEO’s, successful entrepreneurs, dancers, authors, and even people that speak more then three languages who have lived in more then two countries. What if you can learn something useful from all of these people. My overall point is that you should go out there and talk to as many people as you can and be open and curious to what they have to say because it can have a great positive impact on your life as well. You want to be someone that is full of rich knowledge. Maybe an opportunity will arise as well! But you just have to be out there talking to people.

音乐人,CEO,成功的企业人,舞者,作家更有甚者会说三种以上的语言在两个以上的城市居住..如果你想从这些人当中学习有用的东西该怎么办.我的观点是你应该走出去敞开心胸,充满求知欲尽可能和多的人交流因为它可能会对你的生活产生十分积极的影响.只需要出去和别人交流,那就会出现让你成为充满智慧的人的机会.