"裸婚"的意思是新婚夫妇没有房、没有车、没有钻戒或盛大的婚礼的现象。 Naked wedding means newlyweds without a house, car, diamond ring or grand wedding ceremony.
热播的电视剧《裸婚时代》引发了人们对爱情、财产、婚姻的思考。真爱至上还是物质优先？晒一晒关于爱情的经典论述吧！
首先是简·奥斯丁在《傲慢与偏见》中关于婚姻论述的总结：
She pointed out emphatically economic consideration is the bonds of wedlock and love. She said marriage is not determined by property and family status; it is unwise to marry without money, but it is wrong to marry for money; the marriage settled by love is happy and ideal.
她强调了经济状况对妇女爱情和婚姻的束缚，指出婚姻不应该只由财产门第来决定,虽然找一个没钱的人结婚是不明智的，但是为金钱而结婚也是错误的，建立在爱情基础上的婚姻才是理想和幸福的。
再来看看耶鲁大学心理学教授定义的完满爱情的三要素——亲密，激情，承诺
1. Intimacy: the feeling of closeness, of connectedness with someone, of bonding; you share
secrets, and information you don't share with anybody else
亲密：互相亲近的感觉，与某个人紧密的黏在一起；你们之间分享那些从不向别人提起的秘密
2. Passion: the drive that leads to romance, physical attraction or sex
激情：驱动浪漫、肢体吸引和性的力量
3. Commitment: the decision that one is in a love relationship, and a commitment to maintain
that relationship at least for some period of time
承诺：确定处于恋爱关系，并有着至少在一段时期内维持恋爱关系的决心
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(2011-06-22 12:58:40)