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　　More people have ventured into the potentially hazardous waters ofonline dating than would care to admit - and some of their adventureshave been truly hair-raising。

　　Now a group of former Harvard math majors are crunching the data toreveal the secret tips of the online dater, displaying them in -naturally - graph form。

　　Men, for example, should show off their six pack if they have one -but only if they're young. Meanwhile women should always flirt with thecamera - but men should look aloof。

　　The OkTrends blog found at dating website OkCupid have beencharting various trends - such as how long relationships last amongTwitter users - since 2009.

　　One of the blog's tips is to ask your date if they've ever wantedto run away to sea, whether they enjoyed the Blair Witch Project, ortheir past travel experiences。

　　The reasoning, the bloggers explained, was that according to thethousands of multiple choice 'match questions' answered by OkCupid'sseven million users, couples who met on the site agreed most often onthree questions in particular: 'Do you like horror movies?', 'Have youever travelled around another country alone?', and 'Wouldn't it be funto chuck it all and go live on a sailboat?'

　　Experts told the LATimes that these types of questions are measuring the 'openness to experience' or the O Factor。

　　'People who seek stimulation and adventure... they'd be less likelyto establish and comfortably maintain a relationship with verytraditional, conservative, unimaginative, risk-avoidant individuals,'said Western Carolina psychology department head David McCord。

　　Women were also told to flirty with the camera for their profilephoto. If they made what OkCupid called 'flirty-face', they received onaverage 1.5 additional messages per month。

　　That's because a woman's smile is well-documented as a signal ofsexual interest. 'Flirty smiles trigger what we call men's sexualover-perception bias,' Dr Buss said。

　　Only, however, for women. Men were ordered to be aloof on camera.When they did so, they had a roughly 90 per cent success rate with theiremails than otherwise。

　　The data also showed that women who took their 'flirty-face' to the next level by showing a bit of cleavage

　　had better results - vastly better results as they got older. Formen, the inverse is true. Male online daters should show off their sixpacks in their profile pictures, but only if they are young。

　　很多人会大胆尝试网上约会这一存在潜在危险的事情而不愿承认，而且其中一些人的网上约会经历还相当耸人听闻。

　　目前一组曾经就读哈佛大学数学专业的研究人员正在分析数据，试图揭示网上约会的诀窍，并用图像的形式自然地展现出来。

　　例如，男性如果有腹肌的话就应该展示出来，不过前提是他们是年轻男性。而女性则应该在镜头前作出挑逗的表情，但男性应该看起来冷漠些。

　　约会网站OkCupid的OkTrends博客自2009年以来一直在跟踪各种约会趋势，例如Twitter用户之间的恋情持续多久。

　　该博客的建议之一就是问你的约会对象想不想去海边，或觉得电影《女巫布莱尔》好不好看，或者问他们以往的旅游经历。

　　博主解释原因时说，从向OkCupid的700万用户发出的数千份多选题的答复来看，那些在网上相遇的情侣提得最多的三个问题是“你喜欢恐怖电影吗？”“你曾经独自到另一个国家旅游吗？”还有“如果抛下一切到帆船上生活，岂不是很有趣？”

　　专家告诉《洛杉矶时报》说，这种问题衡量的是“经验开放性”或人格的开放性。

　　西卡罗莱纳大学心理系主任戴维?麦科德说：“那些寻求刺激和冒险的人不大可能和十分传统、保守、缺乏想象力、不愿冒险的人确立并轻松地维持恋情关系。”

　　女性收到的建议则是在拍摄个人资料照片时作出挑逗的表情。如果她们作出OkCupid所谓的“挑逗表情”，她们平均每月收到的约会信息会多出1.5条。

　　这是因为有充分的证据证明，女性的笑容预示着性趣。布斯博士说：“挑逗的笑诱发了所谓的男性对于性的感知偏见。”

　　不过挑逗的笑容只对女性有效。男性得到的建议则是在镜头前表现得冷漠。如果他们做出这种表情，他们发出的约会电邮的成功率将达到90%左右。

　　数据还显示，做出“挑逗表情”的女性如果再露出一点乳沟，效果会更好，尤其是那些年纪更大的女性，这么做会大大加分。对于男性而言，则正好相反。网上约会的男性在个人资料的照片上应该展示自己的腹肌，但前提是他们是年轻男性。